Happy Halloween!

Happy Halloween!  We had a fun night trick-or-treating with the kids and their friends and our friends.  Then we went out for a family dinner.

This month has been a horrible month, truth be told.  Other than our 16th anniversary, this month has sucked ass.  To put it frankly.

Dave's SIL died from cancer.
My MIL died exactly a week later from cancer.
They both passed away over the noon hour.
D and I went back east for the funeral and had an unpleasant encounter with D's brother, niece and her boyfriend.
They were horribly rude.  All 3 of them.
And after the restaurant after the cemetery service, about 40 family members went to dinner at a restaurant and we were in the banquet room.  My phone was stolen off the table and was found destroyed, soaking wet with the Otter Box cover taken off of it and at the bottom of the trash can in the men's restroom at the restaurant.  The surveillance cameras don't extend into the banquet room so we don't know for sure who did it.  But based on their location in the room and their vendetta against me, I'm pretty sure it was one or two or three of 3 possible people.  I was a victim of a crime after a family funeral, for God's sake.  Theft and destruction of property.  Nice.   I never named names at the family dinner of who I suspected stole and damaged my phone.
So this next part is funny/interesting/sad.......D's niece went up to D and said that I implied she stole my phone and she had nothing to do with it!   Funny thing is, I never implied that she had anything to do with it. Guilty conscience, much?!  I'm sure she is NOT the one who threw it in the men's restroom trashcan.  It had to be a man.  Then D's brother told his sister that he saw my comment on FB that I posted on my SIL's post about my phone.  And he said that I edited my comment.   SO darn creepy, I tell ya.  I never posted anything about the phone incident on my own FB acct.  My SIL did, and I just commented on it and I did edit it.   But here's the even creepier part..... Who is stalking my FB comments on someone else's FB page?  Who is taking screen shots and sending them to my BIL? Who is the loser that has nothing better to do than stalk me about what comments I make and tattle?!  And I never named names on FB about who I suspected stole and damaged my phone.  Again, guilty conscience, much?!  Hey, if the shoe fits....lace it up and wear it for God's sake.   That's all I'm saying.  I'm not accusing them of stealing and destroying my phone....along with the pictures from the cemetery on my phone.  I'm just recounting how they both took the time and effort to  say they had nothing to do with it.  Even though we didn't directly approach them about it.  
My dog had her surgery for the mass in her leg that ate away 2/3 of her femur bone and had a skin graft.
Another family member is sick with cancer now.

Thank God a new month is beginning tomorrow.  I can't take any more bad news this month.