I probably shouldn't post this on here, since it is a public blog. But, what the heck, these are my feelings and they are real. And if people don't want me posting this stuff about them, they should act with better character.
How many of you are on Facebook? How many of you get annoyed when your supposed Facebook "friends" delete you? (Or "unfriend" you?) It doesn't happen too often (thankfully!), but when I get deleted by someone, I always think, "What the heck did I do to YOU??" Plenty of people post stupid crap on Facebook and whine and bitch and moan about every little thing, and I don't delete them. Grrrr....
OK, so one of Dave's family members recently deleted me on FB! Hello, idiot, how do you think Christmas dinner is going to go from here on out?! This is someone that I have had multiple issues with for many, many years. Issues meaning this person and their family has done stuff to irritate me or piss me off or hurt me for years, and I say nothing. And my husband, who likes to keep the peace, does not say anything either. Grrrr....
So I got up the courage to confront the deleter, and they told me they deleted me because they were hurt and disappointed that my hubs and I did not wish them a happy birthday last month. Or go to their party. Which my husband did not tell me about until after the fact. (He had to work.)
That's it? That's why you deleted someone? MY HUSBAND (who is an amazing husband and father) NEVER EVEN WISHES ME A HAPPY BIRTHDAY ON FACEBOOK!
I was so furious I thought my head was going to explode. For a million reasons. But here are two of them: The deleter did NOT wish me a happy birthday in December!! And the deleter did not delete my husband, even though he committed the same crime! SMH!!! Can you say hypocrite, hypocrite, hypocrite? (BTW, I can't stand hypocrites.) I wrote her back and gave her an earful of all the shit she has done to me over the years. Like 8 paragraphs worth of shit. How old are they? Are we back in junior high?! Good Lord, a different member of my husband's family didn't acknowledge my son's birthday for over 2 weeks! And I wouldn't delete them. But anyways, I like to think I am mature and above that. The deleter did apologize. BUT they haven't sent me another friend request! Lol
Another person who deleted me got mad at me because her boyfriend dumped her, and she wanted me to unfriend the boyfriend. I have no issues with the boyfriend, I've known him since kindergarten, our parents our friends, and frankly, I don't want to be in the middle of that drama. So- she deleted and blocked me from Facebook! And made me feel like a horrible person in the process.
I've only deleted two people from FB. One was someone who kept posting inappropriate things on my FB wall. I kept having to delete them. Finally I figured it was easier to just delete them.
Oy, Social Media! Can't live with it, can't live without it.
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